growthandserenitycoaching

  When Ego Looks Like Strength at Work (But Isn’t) In many workplaces, ego can be mistaken for confidence. Someone talks the loudest, takes charge, never admits fault, and they’re seen as strong. But often, ego isn’t strength. It’s a cover. Ego as a Defense Mechanism People use ego to protect themselves from feeling weak or exposed. The boss who never admits they’re wrong? Insecure about losing authority. The coworker who dominates meetings? Afraid of being overlooked. The teammate who takes all the credit? Struggling with self-worth. Ego hides fear. True confidence doesn’t need to prove itself. How to Respond When Ego Gets in Your Way When someone’s ego starts affecting you, such as cutting you off, undermining you, or making things personal, don’t take the bait. Here’s what helps: Don’t take it personally : It’s about them , not you. Stay factual and calm : Ego feeds on drama. Set respectful boundaries : You don’t have to fight, just hold your ground. Lead b...